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“The goal can be stated simply enough: the overwhelming priority, when on a date with someone we like, is to persuade them to like us back. But the simplicity of the mission masks the complexity required to achieve it. Typically, the advice focuses on externals: what to wear, when to unfurl a napkin, what to order… But such counsel, however well-meaning, is at odds with what we ourselves know about attraction: that it is profoundly focused on psychology.”
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Just a reminder that being “self-aware” doesn’t mean vocally putting yourself down and assuming you can’t improve nor be helped.
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True. People who are self aware can clearly and immediately see who is and isn’t also self aware, and nobody likes someone who isn’t self aware.
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This reminds me of an experience I had when I was 17. I was at a house party and had been eyeing up this really gorgeous girl all evening. Eventually she approached me and we started awkwardly chatting. I cant remember details of the conversation, but after a few minutes she said "youre a bit weird arent you" I replied "yes of course" and she said "youre not supposed to agree with me" and walked away. That was almost 20 years ago. When I was younger it was a mortifying thing to remember. One of those memories of interpersonal interaction that make you cringe when you remember it. Now Im 35 and I'm proud of how I dealt with that situation. Fuck her. If people make you feel you have to be someone other than the person you are, theyre not worth your time.
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I LITERALLY was hella moody when I went out on a date with this guy yesterday and I told him I can't explain why I'm so thrown off but I'm sorry I'm being so moody and I kept mentioning it all throughout our date and he literally replied telling me that the fact that I have so much self awareness is what's important because if I wasn't aware of it, that's when it would be a problem 💕. This just feels like divine confirmation.
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Interestingly I’ve found it also to be true for people who tend to avoid self-awareness and accountability to often unawarely distance themselves from self-aware people.
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"Has nothing to do with looks." -Said no man ever. 😂
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I think this makes sense. I'm not pretty nor socially gifted, but I have always had people around me who genuinely like me...by being kind and unapologetically myself.
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Your imperfections are what make you perfect for me
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if everyone is crazy nobody is. there is a difference between being self-aware and self deprecating
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The right person won't need to work hard to like you, just like you won't need to work hard to like them. We should not change who we are to attract someone because those meant to love us will love us for who we are. Living authentically and true to who you are will make you attract people who value the real you. In the same way, we must observe the people around us with respect and attention to love them as they are, and not from the perspective of what we want them to be.
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My father used to tell me that I’m the worst possible pair for any men. And in the shroom trip I saw the one who told me I’m perfectly enough for him. I guess it was my animus. Excited to meet him in real life.
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Self awareness is great long term. But doesnt do good for getting the attention. Also self awareness doesnt do much if the person dont want to work on themselves. You can know you have self destructive behaviors but if you dont work on it. And just keep hurting yourself and others. Doesnt do much of anything.
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This is true. After disappointing someone by cancelling plans with them (because I put my needs first even if it makes people dislike me. I apologized and rescheduled and made a joke about it) I was later told by them that it was mature and sexy.
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Lol this is exactly how my ex manipulated me. I did not like him, but I liked his honesty and awareness of himself saying "Sorry I am so needy and jealous."
Well yeah, turned out to be a narcissistic control freak and pathological liar with a heart made from stone. He also enjoys abusing others. He is self aware. But he doesn't care.
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What this is ommiting is that the other person might still be under the illusion that perfection exists, and run away when they hear about flaws. Personally I've interpreted this as "they are on their journey, but are not just yet ready for a real relationship". Be prepraed to meet people who don't find self awareness that attractive, but when you do, don't dismiss the advice in this video is bad.
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It’s just a matter of finding that crazy you want, and you get how much of it you can handle. (And vice-versa) 🥰
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We don't need people to be perfect!
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Totally agree about the importance of self awareness, but the "I'm sorry I'm so crazy" made me think about the pesto girl
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Thee most attractive things are being honest, kind ,genuine & having self confidence.
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@youngeuncho6347
3 months ago
So basically you can be genuine and honest to be attractive, not pretentious or trying to be someone else.
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