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My family had absolutely 0 boundaries. We were often in the middle of fights and cheating...I didn't realize how wrong it was until I was older- my mom would pile the 4 kids in our car and go searching for my father at one of his mistress's houses. I felt responsible for keeping my parents happy (hoping they'd be more involved in MY life) and now with my own family I feel SOOOOOO responsible for everyone's feelings/emotions. Its exhausting. I know I need to stop, but struggle to let go.
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I grew up in a family that didnāt have boundaries thatās why I took on emotions and problems that were not mine
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My family didn't have any healthy boundaries. A therapist once told my parents they infantilized me, and we were emeshed.
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Ah man, spot on, I hoped this would be an expanded vid. I have been struggling for years to deal with this. Also the problem becomes that I am fiercely independent and want to now fiercely maintain my individualism, due to never having had boundaries as a child, or even permission to be a separate, different individual.This has left me in a very very difficult position now of how to interact with others on an equal basis, particularly if anyone offers me anything at all. Can you make a full length vid about this subject please? @katie
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What about one sided boundaries, what's yours is yours and what's mine is yours. Then trying to establish boundaries you get labeled "mean" "controlling" or "abusive".
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Wow this hits the spot. I'm from Asian family and I'm married to a westerner. I have a hard time keeping healthy boundaries with my parent/relatives and I feel guilty when I make decision against them. Now I'm building my own family but my family of origin tried to intervene (they said out of good will) my marriage. It's a chaos. How can I deal with this?
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My family of origin to a T. ā¤
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Yes, I realized that I can do things that my partner doesn't like and he won't be disappointed because of that. Or even if he was disappointed I could live on.
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I swear I keep finding that more and more stuff about myself.That's not good.
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My dad was terrible. Heād scream at us. Come home from work angry ruining everyoneās nights. I donāt have one positive memory of him. He ruined every trip by yelling at us. Throw my iPad at my head and miss me and it left a huge dent in the wall. I hate him
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Yup just realized at 28 Iām no longer on-call for my parents and all THEIR issues
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And if you're an ENFP on top of that enmeshment, you also have that "righteous crusader rescue-the-downtrodden" mentality to further enmesh you into feeling your life has value only in serving others. No wonder four of the six kids in my family went into the healthcare field. Who didn't? The two golden children who were raised differently.
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Right
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You mean like parents telling you that if you did (whatever) or failed at (whatever), they would be totally humiliated in the community? Weād have to move because the kid failed a test/got caught skipping school/had a detention and parents were held to ridicule? Things like that?
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This isnt a boundary problem... this is a responsibility thing and it isnt bad.
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I donāt work for money. I do movies for Vyvanse. Give me a few Vyvanse 50 mg pills and I will make you a full length feature film. I want 50 mg because itās the therapeutic dose. I popped a few at the McDonalds on Yonge street in Toronto and a couple of bros made sure nobody stole my money as I put my head back and had a nap high off Vyvanse! That was my movie āNemesis goes Berzerkā back in 2018 before my āBlood Moneyā in 2020. I apologize to all my fans! I have no control over Covid-19 and how this dreadful virus killed millions! May Satan have mercy on their souls!
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What do boundaries even look like???
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This is what created the alphabet people. Parents are not meant to be their child's friend!!!
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@kai7269
1 month ago
In my mind, there is almost nothing worse than someone being disappointed with me. I let them down, and I let myself down. It is physically painful and "soul-crushing."
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