Meditation is a natural occurrence. Love is a practice. Radiance Sutras author Lorin Roche says:
"Love is an energy, a Shakti, that calls us to unify ourselves internally, merge body and soul, and form a relationship with another being. There are many forms of love: the kind of love we have for a friend, a sexual partner, a family member, and the profound, unconditional love we share with a pet.Â
Great skill is required in every moment of love. Each relationship asks to be cherished and held in our awareness in a particular way; it requires balance of a specific kind, and uses different emotional muscles. A love relationship is a type of asana flow.Â
Love is a particular practice of yoga â complex, demanding, and exhausting. It can also be the most meaningful and rewarding practice in the world. When we give our total attention to someone, a special quality of spaciousness and tranquility can emerge.Â
In the love song between Shiva and Shakti called The Radiance Sutras, we hear:
Love is particular.
When you love someone,
A tangible, touchable someone,Â
The whole world opens up.Â
If you want to know the universe,Â
Dare to love one person.Â
All the secret teachings are right hereÂ
Go deeper, and deeper still.Â
The gift of concentration
Is the spaciousness that surrounds it.Â
Focus illuminates immensity
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This verse hints at the idea that when you love one tangible person or thing, everything else melts into nothingness. When meditating on that spaciousness, the mind is able to rest in tranquility.
These are experiences that lovers know in the intensity of loveâs flow. When you are with your cat, dog, boyfriend, girlfriend, mate, or child, and love streams through you, body and soul are united in loving attention. This yoga of love is a practice that occurs naturally to everyone who loves deeply.Â
When you focus on something that engages your entire interest, the mundane world dissolves and all your troubles are forgotten. You melt into the spaciousness that is holding you both. This is wonderfully peaceful. You are walking on air. This tranquility, however brief, is a nectar, a magic food that soothes the nerves and gives strength to keep on loving. The total involvement of our full capacity to perceive opens the doorway into the surprising moments of communion when the outer world fades away into an illusion and we realize, âthis is heaven.âÂ
In order to love fully, we need to utilize all of our senses â vision, hearing, balance, motion, touch, smell, and taste. For example, our bodies are permeated with sensorsâstretch receptors that inform us of how far we are extending as we move. We also have a sense of heart-stretch, and through this sensation, we are called to say âyesâ to the ache of loving. The heightened sensory appreciation we cultivate through practice lights up our inner pathways, so that we learn how to go inside and draw on greater reserves of strength and forgiveness. Savoring the moments of tranquility soothes us, so that we can practice graceful responses beyond mechanical reactivity of fear and anger.
When we adore someone, we even love their idiosyncracies, all of their weird but charming quirks: the sound of their laughter, the way they want to be touched, the way they perceive the world. We delight in their ever-evolving soul expression.Â
Love is a perpetual meditation as we cherish those we love and hold them in our hearts. In this sutra, Shiva is pointing out that any object we love and attend to wholeheartedly is a worthy mantra or doorway into practice. The tools of yoga meditation can be used with any perception â shift from the outer physical level to the subtle essence and then into heavenly spaciousness."
â Lorin Roche, Radiance Sutras
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