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I don’t think I could make it through the day without laughing at myself, or the absurdity of random situations. It’s a harder life if someone doesn’t have access to that. But It’s also hard being around someone who takes themselves so seriously, especially someone who defends themselves so ferociously, and with so little cause, like narcissists tend to do. Thanks for sharing this Dr. Grande.
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My ex husband of 26 year's used sarcastic humor constantly to dice up anyone he could. Always shedding himself in a favourable light..."always". If someone was to turn the tables on and joke on him. He despised this and couldn't handle it what's so ever and become very agitated. He could sure dish it out but, he couldn't take.
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My ex narc once told me "I don't have a sense of humor" it was perplexing at the time, we laughed all the time. Now, I understand that she just followed what everyone else was doing. It was all an act.
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Yep, they dish it out, but they can’t take it.
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That is so well boiled down. Ty! That really makes sense. That just made a lot of things click
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This is very interesting. When I try to look back at some people I know this makes perfect sense. There is a difficulty with self deprecating humor with such individuals.
Thank you, Dr. Grande.❤
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The narc I'm trying to unravel myself away from can't pass gas without trying to sue the restaurant we ate at! He slipped on an icy driveway while on vacation. He didn't even fall or pull a muscle but we had to leave that night and he got his money back for the 3 nights we were supposed to be there.
I've never been so blindsided and screwed over like this before. The man is extremely insecure and vindictive. He even steals back gifts he's given me 😢
I'm trying to work and save money but he makes my life really hard if I like any job I get.
It's exhausting trying to survive and get away.
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Lol If i trip, I definitely look around and say “who tripped me?” 😂😂😂 I don’t try to play it off. I laugh just at myself
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Dude my old boss was a psycho b
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Thanks a lot for adressing humour under the aspect of narcisstic behaviour, Dr. Grande!
I´m glad to experience a new, positive access to humor now and quite obviously thanks to your approach here. 😄💖
I appreciate your support in finding out which paths to follow that do not lead back to the next tricky situation very much and that clearly includes a use of humour that does not devalue myself and others, but possibly protects me.
I wouldn't have even known if laughing at yourself was a good choice if in the past often hurtful jokes were made with you and humour was used as a weapon. It´s not easy to get over it.
Really, thank you so much!
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Yep, hit the nail right on the Noggin.
Another thing I might add they may be in favor of comedic relief but only when it doesn't include them in it.
For example. You're always allowed to add comedic relief about a tragedy that happened to others, but if you're trying to add comedic relief to a tragedy that happened to them, they will get offended. The reason for this is because they take the pleasure in the pain of others because they are insecure about themselves. So, yes, even if your comedic intentions are the most obvious and lighthearted, they will see it as a personal attack, regardless.
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Funny because when they put you down, they’ll be the first to tell you that you can’t take a joke lol.
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Wow I never thought about it that way. Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊💚🤍
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Like Dr. Grande says, narcissists find humor perplexing. For example, you are sitting in a room with a narcissist when you hear or see something amusing on T.V. and spontaneously laugh. The narcissist will look at you and genuinely ask, “What’s making you laugh at that?”
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“I can’t use humor and be a narcissist at the same time,” said the honest and self-deprecating narcissist as he stumbled into an office full of people.
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A person who cant take a joke is to be avoided
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Dr. Grande is not just another ordinary doctor.
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Spot on 👏👏👏💯💫
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So interesting, and I really enjoyed hearing this, Dr. Grande! I've always believed humor is critical for surviving life. ♡♡
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@johnnyearp52
1 year ago
I only knew one narcissist well. He used humor quite a lot but it was always mean jokes about someone else.
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