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I recently got out of a relationship with a woman with bpd, she had no control over her emotions whatsoever, she broke 3 doors, put probly 10 holes in the wall and broke over a dozen dishes.. not to mention all the times she threw things. But by far the worst was that she just constantly screamed and cussed, she would constantly put me down and just tried her hardest to make me feel like a worthless piece of shit and call me names and bring up things that she knew bothered me. And then whenever I would stand up for myself and tell her to stop she would turn it around and say i was the one being emotionally abusive and say I needed to stop bitching and just deal with it because she was just "venting" and would routinely bring up that there were plenty of people who would love to be around her. And she would say she's never been the problem in any relationships. She was masterclass at manipulation. She could rip a door literally in half and then scream in your face calling you a stupid motherfucker but if you dare say anything she would tell you you're the problem because you can't deal with it. 0/10 would not recommend
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You have no idea how much you helped me today to understand a complex problem in my entourage. Infinite thanks.
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Where do people who watch true crime
stories fall ? š¤
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Iām not 100% sure, but I think my older sister has bpd. She would frequently have emotional outbursts where she would be screaming at people. Sometimes it would get physical. She would shove people and wrestle with people on the floor. Sheād break doors and punch holes in the walls. She would also get very paranoid and listen in to other peopleās conversations. Another thing she did was sheād say she loved you one day, then tell you she hated you the next day. It was very difficult for me to have to grow up in that environment. I would witness my sister have an emotional outburst, then have to go to school the next day and try to process it.
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This describes my sister perfectly. She has ruined just about every family relationship.
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Thank you Dr. Todd, PMHNP here and your education is excellent
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This was interesting. It would be interesting to learn more about redirection as a therapeutic strategy. Thanks Dr. Grande
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That is so true, I literally have to remind myself several times a day that not everything I did in live was a complete failure and that there were also positive experiences In order to not get caught up in a downward spiral of self-hatred and anxiety.
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I have borderline tendencies, or so Iāve been told. I think a part of me focuses on negative emotion as a way to not be caught off guard? I donāt want to be in the dark, and I donāt want to be surprised by pain. Iād rather already be well aquatinted with it, or anticipate it, because itās so much easier to deal with. For me at least.
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Thanks to you I understand my self a lot more especially with bpd, a relative new diagnoses for me.
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This makes me wonder if BPD is basically a very active and "high-functioning" kind of autism.
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I have all 9 of the traits/behaviors indicated for a BPD diagnosis. I also have a couple/few traits from each of the other cluster b disorders, as well as PTSD & CPTSD. At 15, I got a TBI in a car wreck. Was out cold 3 days. Recovery took 3 yrs. So Iām all kinds of effed up. Haha. I wonder how much of my personality disturbance stems from my narcissistic parents/anxious attachment, and how much stems from that brain injury. Prefrontal cortex & frontal lobe were affected. Everyone who knew me prior says I woke up different. Some people wake up speaking a new language or can suddenly write concertos or become math wizzes. All I got was a shorter memory & a bad attitude. Iām 52 now & have āfigured out my own crapā so thoroughly that Iām my own counselor. I did dwell on negativity. I did write the edgy emo poetry. I did crawl through my own memory searching for anything to help make sense out of my madness. I cried a lot. I hid myself away. It was all worth it because I get it now. I wish I could help others run their gauntlets, but I truly donāt know exactly what I did to get through mine other than never giving up on myself. Itās a worthwhile struggle getting to the meat - the heart - of the matter. Your channel helped me and so I thank you, dear doctor. š
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People are confused when I do not harbour ill will toward those who have "done me wrong". I don't see the point of throwing good money after bad. Best to break clean and go forward. I try to encourage my friends who are stuck in the pain of a break up to do the same.
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Why you gotta call me out like that
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I love the lighting and your voice and that is therapy enough.
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Thanks Dr. Grande. I have BPD and I think your videos are awesome and incredibly informative.
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I was diagnosed with borderline and sometimes it feels like that can't be true but then I hear something like this.. and I thought it was completely normal to do that, to be like that. Some people just.. find catharsis in negative things.
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I due tend to ruminate on past hurtful or negative experiences. Which ultimately pushes me deeper into depression etc. itās not intentional but I would really like to stop this. If one bad thing happens I tend to over analyze the negative components and relate it to this never ending theme of ābad things always happen to meā. I know I do this and want to stop it seems impossible though
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If anyone needed proof of hell being self imposed
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@ParasiteHater
1 year ago
Addiction to sadness is a real thing.
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