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It's active listening, backed by extensive scientific research -- it's getting out of our scared/angry reactive brain, and back into our higher cognitive functioning (calm the cortisol and shift from amygdala back to the pre-frontal cortex)... and understanding each other.
It takes work (and discipline in the heat of the moment).
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This isn't how you can stop arguing with your partner. This is how you and your partner can agree to stop arguing. But if you agree, then any method will work.
If YOU want to stop any argument with your partner, there is one and only one way: "Yes, dear".
Any other option has the potential to lead to an argument.
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This process is amazing! I watched the videos of people using this method to resolve even the most sensitive of issues. Almost all of the videos I watched were of people who said they had been trying to resolve the issue for extended periods of time, and they resolved it within minutes of using this YBAngry process.
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I know you are right .
And this is good advice in most situations.
But the assumption here is that it is a real issue.
And that both parties want to get along
I tried all the great ideas I could look up
The sad but truth is
Sometimes someone wants. to have conflict with you .
And the issue is not real .
So trying to work it out is like
Hearding cats .
It can be hard to figure out when you are inside the situation.
This is why I started writing down a journal of what set the person off .
Eventually it was clear and I had to just offer them an out .because they didn’t have the ability to tell me that they didn’t want to be in a relationship with me,so they were sabotaging it .
By picking arguments.
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I don't necessarily agree here. This doesn't resolve or solve the origins of where and how the actual disagreement started. This just helps to clarify that the two people are indeed in an 'argument'. This is all they are agreeing on - nothing else. At the end of the day, disagreements are a natural aspect of a healthy relationship. It is how you choose to deal with differing opinions that creates harmony. What this guy is advocating isn't lies per Se, but it is definitely fudging the points.
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@nareshmali0
8 months ago
Bro said take notes when arguing lmao
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