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People don't worry about me. They don't really care.
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When people worry about me or ask me if I am okay, It actually makes me feel so emotional because I mask my depression by being happy go lucky.
If someone can see through that mask, it really makes me feel that they care about me and I Thank them for asking me if I am alright.
It usually comes from a person who I least expect and that makes me feel that they truly care ❤
Thank you so much for your videos 🌻 🙏🏽
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The moment you stop thinking about what other people think about you and focus on yourself and worried about you and stay in your own lane you're going to be just fine
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I'm telling myself that it's going to put me in a debt that I won't be able to pay off and that I'm going to get punished in the end. I need more predictability.
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When people worry about me I feel like they think I can't manage anything on my own and they want to control me.
If I ask people for help, that is different. If I say, 'I need help here" and they see the problem and pitch in to help because they know and acknowledge what I see is in reality a problem, then I feel validated and supported.
Don't gaslight me with your worry though.
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I've had too many people say that but behave differently when I need them. So I've kind of learned not to expect anything. I just shake my head and say okay.
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I immediately become defensive and wonder what it is. The other person wants from me.
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I have a dear friend who I had to go stay with due to my husband's drinking, thus the verbal abuse followed. One day she poked her head out of the kitchen as I was putting my things back into my bag, "You CAN take up space!" I didn't know what to say or that I was even trying to "make myself small." I am working towards recovery from anorexia and.....what she said was confusing but was true. I didn't even know that I was doing it. However I COULD articulate that I am using oxygen that other people needed. Thanks for reiterating reality! I'm trying to absorb it and I plan to figure out what I need to do differently.
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While people may worry about me while we are in each other's presence, I soon feel forgotten about, because they don't follow through.
The only exceptions are a few close family members and one wonderful lady from the church I was a member of for a long time.
It's the fact that I feel forgotten about so quickly that bothers me.
In my mind, I'm aware that social relationships generally aren't as close as they used to be, and that there are more distractions around than there used to be ...I still feel that I am just "forgettable", and that I just don't matter that much to most of the people around me. (Conversely, I can care so much about other people that I get overwhelmed by my emotions, then feel ashamed when I don't follow up.)
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I told a collegue about my emotional neglegt, abuse,depresion. She stop talking to me. I discover something in my breast, maby cancer, first word from my sister: why didnt you feel it earlier. Always downplaing. On my fist period i was devasteted, and she said: every woman has it . Shes my oldest sister, secon i narciscisc and abuser. My mother didnt care... My mother never care about my feelings. She was a teacher in one school i weńt to another. I was bullied thrrough middle and high school, i said to her that, and she said- you are smart, you survive it. It broke me to piesces. She was always a pushover, never stand for herself, always peaple pleaser (as myself). I wanted her to defend me. She did nothing. She never stood for me. My father was emotionaly absent father. He once take me to soccer game, leave me, a child,alone on stadium and go to his male friends. He could saw me, and he lookad at me from time to time to see im ok. But never was interested in spending time with me. My mother always ask him to take me, i was the youngest. I freaked out inside myself when people show me they care. I dont feel safe, i ask myself what they want from me. Its like- this queston is new to me and make me feen uneasy. I find it strange when people are interested in me.
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When someone tells me that they are worried about me or telling me their concerns regarding me or an aspect of my life/health, I feel as if I am a problem, in trouble, I did something wrong and I need to "make the bad thing inside me/the bad me go away". I feel I am the bad that needs to be erased. I feel as though I'm going to be punished or my life would be (possibly) in danger. That people might take away my rights, my freedom, my voice and will infantalize me. What I will try to do is try and console them, please the f* out of them, try and make them laugh, reason away, bagatalise my problems, not speaking up (only a limited amount or not at all) about my problems, politly cutting them off ("Thank you for your concern, etc" wrapping up conversation ASAP with little to no room for response) or, being defensive and closed off or hot headed when feeling cornered in a pinch. The trauma response is making me ready to defend and flee otherwise the other person is going to try and gain control and pacify me. People usually don't truly feel worried or concerned because they care about me. That is rare. They usually are concerned about themselves or feel the need to control an object or it is their job and they are following protocol. Nowadays I can feel better when this response happens within me. I try and feel what is happening on the other side as well. Truly listening and hearing the other person out before taking a deep dive into the traumaresponse. I feel I can trust more people than I used to. It is a process.
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For me, it all depends on where it feels like they're coming from, and if they're genuine. If (big if) they come across as genuinely, sincerely caring about my wellbeing, then I immediately feel really emotional (I'm never more than a sniff away from a complete breakdown, so that checks out).
If they come across as confrontational, accusatory or "Why aren't you doing the thing I think you should be doing? Why are you like this?" then I shut down. This is by far the more common way variations of this question are asked in my experience
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❤yes especially with my father that did expect perfection from me but never gave me unconditional love in return so it was so hard for me because I was always so good at school but it was only because he was putting his own frustrations and regrets and expectations into my life and I did it just because I wanted to be loved. And my little sister was his favorite even though she didn’t have the same results as me.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
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I feel awkward AF when someone says they care and they wanna know I'm ok. I wanna deal with if myself and I don't trust people so uhh... What if it's just a tool to use against me?? Nope. No. Nuh uh.
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I'm not worth the emotional investment to be worth an emotional or to be cared for because I was isolated and had to only depend oh myself for my emotions as people proved time and time again reality vs the feeling were a lie. I think people just talk to me for a week and disappear because they don't want to be my friend
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What if i worried about worring tbat worrying could worry about me worrying that worry worried? Or is worried just to worried to think im worried without worrying too much. Id like to worry about worry if worry could worry about me but im worried that worrying just isnt enough.
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Oh hell yea, totally
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Yes
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Makes me feel uncomfortable that someone thinking or i was in their thoughts! I feel like a baby and being over dramatic and I Hate that, im not a baby! And i can take care of myself I dont need to tell you my problems or trust you either
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@sepadgett792000
1 month ago
When someone tells me they are worried about me I immediately think they are being fake and just want me to stop being a problem
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