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I don't select mates who are similar to myself. Unfortunately, I tend to select mates who are similar to what I'm used to. I was raised with emotional abuse, and that's what I gravitate towards. Unfortunately, I don't recognize the abuse until it's really obvious because I'm so accustomed to it. The few people I dated who weren't abusive also were clear they weren't interested in anything long-term. It's unlikely I'll ever have a lasting, healthy romantic relationship, so I finally stopped searching for that and decided to find fulfillment in developing other aspects of my life. Photography, painting, and travel are expensive but not as expensive as any of my exes.
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I think values and goals are more important in a spouse than personality traits.
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My husband and I were HS sweethearts, married for 41 years before he died unexpectedly a couple of years ago. We were both introverts and homebodies. We enjoyed quiet vacations and long drives. I don’t think I could handle life with someone extremely extroverted.
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Funny, I was just thinking about this. Or something similar. Why did I choose my husband? Definitely physical attraction, even though all my life i would NEVER have characterized him as "my type". Then there are similarities in what I would call "the important" qualities, and believe. But VASTLY different in every other aspect. I'm introverted, he's extroverted. I'm an artist, he's a mathematician. I'm messy, him borderline OCD. I'm often described by friends as crazy, and him level headed. And so many more differences. LOADS more. Even our age, he's 15yrs older than me. And we're so happy with each other, it sickens those around us. We just celebrated our 21st anniversary. And at the end of the day, I just can't explain it.
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Extroverts are too extroverted for their own good 😂
Edit: just kidding
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This is so interesting, never heard of this. Such fascinating info again. Thanks Dr G😊🧡💙
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So Paula Abdul was on to something, " opposites attract" 😂❤
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I hope they do. The ones I’ve picked that are different tends to have many disagreements.😂
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My husband and I are opposites. Both of us had difficult childhoods with similar backstories. Both of us very open to love and experience. It has been challenging but lovely to grow together. We like to discuss everything under the sun. We both realize that it’s ok to change our opinions. We respect each other’s space and energy. Giving the other person a safe space to talk, learn, grow and heal- priceless. We both want to give each other what we so desperately needed as children.
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We appreciate Dr Grande's hard work and dedication. God bless him.
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I believe so. My partner and I are two peas in a pod. We like different things but at the same time we are so alike.
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'Positive assortative mating, or homogamy.'
Thank you Dr. Grande.
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The only thing I had in common with my first boyfriend was our sense of humor. With my now boyfriend, we have nothing in common. We are complete and total opposites. We still do things each other likes but it's not our thing. We also enjoy doing those things. But similarities haven't been what attracts me. I should also add the connection was instant for both and both longterm relationships that started rhe day off courtship. It was a soul thing. (I truly believe that anyway)
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my parents have very different levels of openness to experience but frankly I have no idea how they even started dating let alone got married
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Dr. Grande, can I tell you a joke?
A horse walks into a bar and sits down at the end. The bartender says,hey,hey,hey! Over there. Waving his hand at the horse.
And the horse says,”thanks buddy! You just read my mind”
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I couldn't imagine having a neurotic partner. One thing neurotic people do is that it's not enough that they drive themselves crazy they have to drive everyone else crazy too.
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Openness to experience? Would that be people who are open to trying foreign foods?
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The only thing we had in common was our personality disorders. She was cluster b and I am cluster a.
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I'm an extrovert and a confident communicator. I strongly tend to date introverts who are poor communicators and turbulent opposed to my assertive score on the Big Five personality model. We tend to sync mostly on hobbies, personality and physical attraction.
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@TheFakeyCakeMaker
1 year ago
Short answer yes. Some things have to be similar but some things don't.
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