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I would be willing to bet it's even higher but people don't want to admit it's a deal breaker.
My old roommate was institutionalized once for a mental breakdown and he would joke about it openly and when I asked how he's so free to talk about it he said he would be in a relationship with some women and they would poke and prod about his life and when he told him within a week they'd dump him.
He learned to just make it the first thing someone knows about him so if they leave they'll leave early before any form of a relationship is developed.
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People are obviously not dusclosing since the majority of us are crazyš
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I think most people end up learning much later about a partners mental health, mainly because of the lack of information on the subject. For instance, if a person has no knowledge regarding love bombing that can go unnoticed and even appear quite flattering, when in reality they may be dealing with a narcissist.
Even depression can be hidden for a very long time. I believe the ideal is to be up front on the get go but I am sure the fear of rejection prevent an honest conversation to take place.
Thank you, Dr. Grande.ā¤
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With the insane level of abuse and domestic assaults I had to go through with my mother, BPD is a big deal breaker for me and so is NPD and APD, obviously. I recommend if you sense any HINT of narcissism, then run
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I think itās really about how you treat your love interest, and how well you take care of yourself. Mental health issues, like depression and schizophrenia, if episodic, I think can be dealt with the same way diabetes and other health concerns are: with eternal vigilance. Lots of check-ins. Even alcoholism or past drug addictions (provided people stay in recovery programs, etc.) donāt have to be deal breakers.
Personality issues, however, like mean-spirited narcissism, control and anger issues, those are dealbreakers for me. Not battles Iām willing to fight, because the person kind of IS those problems.
But relationships, even good ones, end eventually. Death, divorceā¦ itās best to try to learn how to be happy on your own and in your own company. Everything else is just icing on the cake.
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Smoking cigarettes is a deal breaker!
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Anxiety is a deal breaker? I feel practically everyone has some anxiety and depression nowadays. Itās more the norm as opposed to the exception
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Yup. Tried dating while recovering from a major mental health relapse related to narcissist abuse. After two bad results, I decided to stay single
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My ex wife has all sort of mental health disorders. It lead her to becoming a sex worker and meth addict. So now my dealbreaker are substance abuse and sex work.
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Fuck I am forever single then š
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Everyone has deal breakers
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After having relationships with others as disturbed as myself, I've come to the conclusion that solitude offers a far more desirable situation. As I grow, 'maybe' later? No rush.
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Yes! I'm a walking dealbreakers! Good thing I married another walking dealbreaker! A marriage made in hell!
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I met my current partner of 2 year at work (we both quit soon after we started dating) & very early on felt comfortable sharing that I had bipolar disorder. He didnāt judge me & we have a great relationship (shoutout to therapy & meds)
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Forming a friendship before it becomes romantic is generally a good idea for anyone. Thatās often how spouses/partners find their ābest friendā with whom to share their life. ā¤
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It's good to know my mental disorder isn't a deal breakerš
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Liberalism is a deal breaker for me.
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Whats the male female split? I would posit that men are much more tolerant of mental disorders than women even serious ones.
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This answers some long-standing questions for me personally.
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@karenann8222
1 year ago
I have a schizophrenia diagnosis. Eventhough I have been on psychiatric medication for years, once someone knows my diagnosis, I am rejected. I'm in my sixties now and feel that my ship of romance has sailed. But,oh, I am very lonely. It's a good thing I have good friends and a supportive family.
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