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The real reason you overthink decisions - emotional regulation #shorts
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When you get overwhelmed by making a choice, when you can’t decide between A and B, you often settle for C or you end up paralyzed, procrastinating, or making no decision at all. In this video you’ll learn the 3 underlying causes of decision paralysis, and 2 keys to overcoming it. And I'll give you a hint, it has to do with emotion regulation and executive functioning.
Frieda’s story is the epitome of decision paralysis. Decision paralysis is when you get overwhelmed with a complicated decision, or a simple one. Deciding “What should I major in at college?” or “Where should we eat tonight?” might make you freeze up, you might avoid it, overthink it, delay it, or constantly second guess your choice. This can lead to choice fatigue, you might feel exhausted or just give up on college or eating out that night.
Or you might procrastinate, instead of just picking the topic for that one huge assignment, you do a ton of little tasks that aren’t important. Or you spend time watching shows or on social media- anything you can to avoid dealing with that overwhelming decision.

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@Lolxoxoxo

1 year ago

Trying to find the course about anxiety at the end

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@ellengrace4609

1 year ago

Tied into this is believing there’s a “right” choice and not wanting to make the “wrong” choice. For most difficult decisions , there is no “right” choice (or it probably wouldn’t be a difficult decision as the choice would be more obvious). For most decisions, there’s a choice that leads to this outcome and a choice that leads to that outcome. Neither one is necessarily right or wrong, just different outcomes.

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@catherineswan2076

1 year ago

Great information! I love her seating arrangement….. That would’ve been something I would’ve over-thought🤣

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@DonnaAndCats

1 year ago

Omg. Hard to admit but this is spot on. I think I have near-constant Analysis Paralysis. 😢

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@farmpunk_dan

1 year ago

Makes so much sense. I have been finally finding my way out of a state of chronic overwhelm and noticing I also have more tolerance for this kind of discomfort now. It doesn’t push me over the edge like it used to.

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@NorahsYarnArt

1 year ago

Two thing helped with making decisions 1. It’s ok to fail/ make a bad decision. 2. I now have a failure checklist of things to do after failing something to make sure I never get stuck again- moving forward is key- course correction is available at all time but the most important thing is to keep moving forward.

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@LivingWorstLife

1 year ago

I like your energy and enthusiasm! And yeah, I'm an over-thinker/wacky emotional regulator. Nailed it. 😁

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@lindahoover1540

1 year ago

Truly I heard everything you said. I had to mention I enjoyed your choice of seat. It made me smile. Especially how natural it was for you just to take a seat. Love it.😊

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@Alphacentauri819

1 year ago

I love, love that you were sitting on the horsey for this!! It added a levity to a difficult topic 😂

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@lulumarie7

1 year ago

I agree with everyone else: this info is spot on and truly helpful. As always, thank you for doing what you do! Side note: I adore how down-to-earth and genuine you are. You did a beautiful job of balancing a challenging topic with a light and fun environment (sitting on the rocking horse 😄). Please never stop being you. 💛

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@Ytviews49

1 year ago

You actually shared the real reason correctly. I myself have to make a big decision and making the Pros and cons list thing suggested by my therapist is not helping me at all. Maybe that's the reason.

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@hritiksingh1996

1 year ago

Can you please share some resources about building distress tolerance?

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@rivkakolodny7310

1 year ago

Nailed it! I always thought I was indecisive because it was complicated but you are so so so right - I'm just terrified of the negative feelings if the decision goes south! Thank you for that clarity, it's a real game changer!

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@aaronpolichar7936

1 year ago

The actual distress that I usually experience isn't as bad as what I fear it will be. When I do experience more distress, it's usually caused by something that I didn't expect to cause those feelings.

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@MikeAnn193

1 year ago

This is very plausible to me, and it's a topic I've thought about on occasion for years. So before you revealed the answer I paused the video to summarize my own idea, which came out in two parts: (1) I make it difficult by trying to analyze data from so many different sources and/or in complex ways, and (2) I don't trust myself to be happy with my choice if I don't do that. So your explanation jibes with at least the second part. I've added this to my favorites so I hear it with some regularity. Thank you. Checking out your course now...

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@connie10000

1 year ago

🎉Emma, you are amazing at diving into the ROOT CAUSE of overthinking, etc. I also find it helpful... to get it out of my head & put on paper; yet put it in a question format. It can be regards to the same concern; yet ONE question is a YES or NO format. The other question... I ask in an Open-Ended format. Then I draw a line waiting for my Inner Spirit/Holy Spirit/God/Universe to provide the answer. The answer may not come at that moment. It may come later when my mind is more relaxed or after walk in nature, jog, taking bath, etc. EXPECT the answer to present itself sooner or later ❤

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@tammygallo1006

1 year ago

I have just found your content after many months of watching videos on trauma. You are the first person that nails what I am feeling and ACTUALLY provides the "why" that's been so elusive. This video is just another example. 100% resonates and I'm so grateful!!! ❤

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@jesse_campbell

1 year ago

The rocking horse is the perfect metaphor.

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@tianacook1954

1 year ago

This just opened up so much with a major decision I made almost 15 years ago. Time to process what you said (and the emotions that go with it) with regards to that decision. Thank you!

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@MeganS1995

1 year ago

You're absolutely right! Once I started addressing the underlying emotions, a lot of what I was struggling with has become easier to manage. I think sometimes when we're stressed about making decisions, this causes some overwhelm--and overwhelm by definition is a state of being unclear. So this results in more indecision.

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