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Not always. My mentors repeatedly tried to persuade me to "not be so hard on myself." To not beat myself up so much when I fell short of my standards and to at least give a glancing acknowledgement when I had some success.
I am not the only person who would not have benefited from more pressure being supplied. I do not think everyone responds productively to more pressure.
People are not fungible.
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There has to be a balance, like a yin yang. Both the protector and the enforcer can both have high standards and even exist within one.
For instance, my parents were both enforcers, but my dad gave me the tools to survive in some ways. He gave me wirm rods to pick thousands of worms, and helped me open a bank account at six or younger maybe. He was hard as hell sometimes, and beat me, but I know he regretted that,even while it was happening, because i saw the tears in his eyes. He did good things, the minute i opened my bank statement as a kid, and showed him the extra 30k, he drove me straight to the bank, to show them. When a psychopath wearing no pants, in a yellow Camaro with Oregon license plates stalked me home from school at 11, and almost pulled ne into his filthy, disgusting car, after his whining voice kept saying " just let me show you some pictures", i was strong enough to beat him and his vile and utterly disgusting pictures away, and run home, my dad took me straight to the police station. He tried to do the right thing for so long. Ge tried to be honest, he tried to help, ge gave up and drank. All anyone ever asked for from him was money or toys or a place to live. He wasn't a bad person, he was a tortured soul, and misunderstood and hated. No wonder he went away. I hope he had friends somewhere when he died. He didn't deserve the hell he lived through on earth.
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@elizabethscrivner6891
2 months ago
This is a complex and important topic.
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