JulienHimself @[email protected]
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Since 2010, Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) has been travel
SURPRISE FLASH SALE! π
These links expire soon...
So, I've decided to do a surprise flash sale on all of my online courses... Why? Just 'cause! π
Here are your discount links:
π 50% OFF Transformation Mastery: www.julienhimself.com/tm-flash
This is my signature course on HOW TO LET GO!
If you don't know how, this will give you the step-by-step system that I use myself.
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π 50% OFF High Vibe Communication: www.highvibecommunication.com/hvc-flash
This one covers SOCIAL SKILLS!
And this advice comes from real life experience... You won't find it in any book, trust me.
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π 50% OFF The Purpose Process: www.thepurposeprocess.com/tpp-flash
This program covers marketing, sales and public speaking.
If you're a coach, I'd HIGHLY suggest getting a copy of this.
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π 67% OFF Transformation Mastery Academy: www.transformationmasteryacademy.com/tma-flash
Want something more longterm? Then join the academy!
This is a 12-month interactive coaching with myself and my coaches.
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Enjoy the discounts!
And MASSIVE respect from me to you for committing to your own growth and transformation.
It's what the world needs... π
- Julien
REAL TALK... π
I'm looking for a small group of serious individuals who I will PERSONALLY take under my wing and coach (online) over the next 2 months.
THIS ISN'T FOR EVERYONE.
You MUST be committed and ready to take massive action!
No dabblers or freeloaders.
π If this is you, then apply here: application.julienhimself.com/
I look forward to coaching you!
- Julien
PS: Selection is not guaranteed.... So take your time to carefully fill out the application.
(I review them all myself!)
What's the #1 way people try to be CONFIDENT? π
Take a guess. Challenges? Affirmations? Experience? Drugs? Drinking? Money? Competence?
Here's the real deal...
It's all about activating your "WINNER EFFECT"
When you feel like you're WINNING, you tap into your inner faculties.
Picture yourself at work where you're the boss... You feel confident because you're "winning" in that context.
Once you get this concept of the winner effect, you'll see how people chase this feeling constantly.
The most common way? Putting others down... Which is very TOXIC!
If they're beneath you, you feel like a winner.
You've probably met people who subtly diss you or make little jokes just to feel like they're winning.
People also chase this feeling through money and validation.
But is this lasting?
Nope.
It ultimately makes you a slave to whatever is giving you that winner effect.
Feel like a winner at work?
Sure, but step out, and that confidence fades...
This is the base of SITUATIONAL CONFIDENCE.
The way to PERMANENTLY activate your winner effect isn't by feeling like a winner compared to others or inflating yourself with money or validation.
It's by LETTING GO and giving yourself inner approval!
π Letting go is what keeps your winner effect active permanently.
Whatever you're chasing out there, you're actually craving it inside.
Needy for love? You're craving inner love.
Needy for validation and approval? You're craving it inside.
You might think having lots of people love you will make you love yourself, but it's an inside job.
Think about the HAVING - DOING - BEING model.
Most people are stuck in the having paradigm.
They find their worth in what they have: money, looks, clothes, approval.
Then there's doing, where self-worth comes from action.
Work like crazy one day, feel great; work less, not so much...
The real progression to true CORE CONFIDENCE is being.
It's not about what you have or do but who you are.
You should feel just as confident alone in your bed as you do on stage.
Your self-worth should be inherent.
If you're trying to find confidence in your looks or in what you say, you're giving your power away.
π True core confidence comes from letting go of external validation and just being confident because you are.
It's not about adding or compensating.
It's about removing and letting go.
That's why I emphasize letting go and inner work.
Letting go is confidence.
Otherwise, you're just compensating and putting up a front.
- Julien
LETTING GO Techniques To Get Over Your Ex...π
Often, the pain and confusion we experience aren't solely about the relationship ending but are intensified by deeper TRIGGERED sensations.
Here are the 8 key lessons from my approach to breakups, aiming to help you process your feelings and move forward healthily and authentically:
π LESSON 1: DISTINGUISHING REAL BREAKUP PAIN FROM TRIGGERED SENSATIONS
The agony many people feel during a breakup often stems from triggered sensations rather than the breakup itself.
While breakups are naturally painful, these triggered emotions can amplify the distress, leading people to remain affected by their past relationships for years.
A critical question to ask yourself is, "Is my response appropriate to reality?"
This helps in identifying whether your reaction is due to the actual breakup or the triggered feelings from within.
π LESSON 2: THE IMPORTANCE OF LETTING GO
Fully processing and letting go of what is being triggered within you is crucial.
Surface-level solutions like dating others to get over an ex often keep the ex alive in your mind, perpetuating the cycle of pain.
Instead, the key to moving on lies in addressing and releasing these deep-seated emotions.
π LESSON 3: ENGAGING IN DEEP SELF QUESTIONING
"Shadow questions" help in talking to your inner world, revealing hidden insecurities.
For instance, asking yourself, "Why is she better than me?" or "Why am I not good enough?" can unearth beliefs you may not be consciously aware of but are affecting your self-esteem and relationships.
π LESSON 4: EMBRACING & VALIDATING YOUR EMOTIONS
It's essential to honor and feel your emotions without judgment.
I liken this to comforting your inner child, suggesting that you should hug yourself and be present with your feelings.
By acknowledging and feeling the hurt, you prevent it from being suppressed and resurfacing later.
π LESSON 5: THE POWER OF AUTHENTICITY
I advocate for authenticity as the cornerstone of healthy relationships.
From the very start, being unapologetically yourself helps in screening for compatibility.
Authenticity allows you to attract those who truly resonate with you while repelling those who don't, saving you from future disappointments and heartache.
π LESSON 6: FINDING CONFIDENCE WITHIN
True confidence, or core confidence, comes from within and is not dependent on external factors like looks or situational achievements.
I advise against deriving your confidence from fleeting external circumstances.
Instead, focus on rediscovering the core confidence that has always been within you.
π LESSON 7: CRAFTING YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP VISION
Creating a clear vision of your ideal partner and relationship dynamic can help in attracting the right person.
I suggest writing down the attributes of your ideal partner and the nature of your ideal relationship.
This clarity can guide you in your interactions and choices, ensuring you don't settle for less than what you truly want and deserve.
π LESSON 8: ACCEPTING THE GRIEVING PROCESS
I share a poignant quote from a Marvel show, "What is grief but the continuation of love?" It's normal and healthy to feel grief after a breakup, as it signifies the love and care you had for the person.
Allowing yourself to grieve is part of the healing process and should not be rushed or avoided.
Breakups are undoubtedly painful, but by understanding and addressing the triggered emotions, practicing self-compassion, embracing authenticity, and building core confidence, you can navigate through the pain and emerge stronger and more self-aware.
Take these lessons to heart, and remember that the journey through a breakup is not just about moving on from the past but also about rediscovering and embracing your true self.
- Julien
10 lessons about SELF CONFIDENCE... π
π LESSON 1: EMBRACE CRITICISM & FREEDOM OF THOUGHT
No matter what you do, some people will not like you, and some will criticize you.
Trying to control how others perceive you is an exercise in futility.
It's like being the thought police of your own life, censoring any negative opinions about you.
Instead, give people the freedom to think whatever they want about you.
Ask yourself, "Why does it affect me so much if someone thinks negatively of me?" Your self-worth should not be tied to others' opinions.
Let people criticize you; it's okay.
π LESSON 2: ACCEPT THAT NOT EVERYONE WILL LIKE YOU
It's a natural part of life that you won't get along with everyone.
There's a myth that you can make everyone like you if you just find the right approach.
However, that's unrealistic.
There is such a thing as natural chemistry.
You will click with some people and not with others.
This doesn't make anyone bad or inferior; it just makes them different.
We are all equal but different, and that's okay.
π LESSON 3: AVOID BEING A "SOCIAL CHAMELEON"
Trying to please everyone by changing who you are depending on the situation is not sustainable.
This is often rooted in a need for approval and can lead to being fake.
True improvement in social skills involves being genuine and authentic, not perfecting the art of morphing into what you think others want you to be.
π LESSON 4: KNOW YOUR WORTH
Understand who you are at your core.
Your self-worth should come from within and not be dependent on external validation.
Think about the example of someone criticizing you for having blue hair when you don't.
If you know you don't have blue hair, it doesn't bother you.
Similarly, if someone criticizes you for something you know isn't true, it shouldn't affect you.
π LESSON 5: RELY ON YOUR OWN OPINIONS
In a world where we often look externally for answersβwhether through social media, Google, or other people's opinionsβit's crucial to develop your own sense of authority and trust in your opinions.
Before seeking external advice, ask yourself, "What would my own answer be?" This practice helps you value your own perspective.
π LESSON 6: CELEBRATE YOUR WINS & MAINTAIN A CHILDLIKE JOY
Life doesn't have to be serious all the time.
Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and bring back the joy and playfulness of childhood into your daily life.
This attitude makes work and self-improvement feel less like a chore and more like an exciting journey.
π LESSON 7: ALIGN YOURSELF WITH YOUR TRUE PURPOSE
Reflect on your childhood and the moments when you felt most like yourself.
Reconnect with those feelings and integrate them into your adult life.
This combination of adult intellect and childlike enthusiasm makes you unstoppable.
When work feels like play, you can achieve more without feeling drained.
π LESSON 8: LET GO OF SOCIAL CONDITIONING
Many of the beliefs and behaviors that limit us come from past conditioning.
Reflect on your life and identify where these limiting beliefs come from.
Understand that your self-worth is inherent and not dependent on external factors.
Let go of the conditioning that tells you otherwise.
π LESSON 9: AVOID COMPARISON & EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT
Don't fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others.
Everyone is on their own unique journey.
Instead of constantly looking ahead and feeling dissatisfied with the present, place your finish line behind you.
Embrace where you are now and recognize that you are living your life, not someone else's.
π LESSON 10: REFLECT ON THE MEANING OF BEING "GOOD ENOUGH"
Your worth is not tied to your actions, achievements, or how others perceive you.
You are good enough just as you are.
If you tie your worth to external factors, you become a slave to them.
Instead, realize that you have always been good enough.
The journey is about removing the layers of conditioning that have convinced you otherwise.
By embracing these lessons, you can navigate life's challenges with more confidence, authenticity, and joy.
Remember, the journey is not just about achieving external success but about rediscovering and embracing your true self.
- Julien
In life, you're either moving UP or DOWN! π
There is no "staying the same."
Delaying action doesn't make things easier... It makes them harder!
Why?
Because the longer you wait, the deeper you sink into your COMFORT ZONE!
Not only that, but as time goes on, you have less energy and more responsibilities.
It gets WORSE with time!
So if you want to make taking action harder, keep putting things off...
Or break this pattern TODAY.
Take action.
π Here's how I help my clients break free: application.julienhimself.com/
- Julien
"Are you not ENTERTAINED?" π
Well, you shouldn't be...
My content isn't made for entertainment... It's made to change lives!
But that can ONLY happen if you take action on it.
Otherwise, self help becomes your new Netflix.
A way to procrastinate while feeling "productive"... I call this PRODUCTIVE PROCRASTINATION.
Don't fall into this trap!
Use this content to change your life.
Don't get used by it.
π And if you need my help with this, just ask: application.julienhimself.com/
I hope this lands.
- Julien
Take a good look at yourself...π
Are you truly giving it your all to live your best life?
Or are you caught in the trap of "productive procrastination"?
Doing tasks that feel productive, but don't actually lead to any significant changes in your life.
I've been there myself.
I used to engage in activities that appeared productive... But they were safe choices, comfortably nestled within my comfort zone.
Hereβs the real indicator:
If your actions feel comfortable, chances are they won't lead to real change.
You know you're stepping outside of your comfort zone when you start feeling a bit of resistance...
When you feel a bit embarrassed...
When you feel a bit scared...
Now, the solution isnβt to continuously fight against this resistance or to push through it relentlessly.
There's a better way:
Change how you relate to this resistance!
By doing so, it stops being an obstacle and becomes a guidepost.
This change requires deep introspection and the willingness to let go.
π Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com/
- Julien
You've learned enough... It's time to stop! π
Most people are ADDICTED to learning.
They learn, learn, learn... But do they ever change?
Has your life ACTUALLY improved or do you simply "know" a lot of things?
This is the problem:
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN KNOWING AND SOLVING!
Most people know EVERYTHING about their problems... They in fact know TOO MUCH about their problems.
But they still haven't solved them!
I call these people "KNOWLEDGE COLLECTORS"
And their fate isn't a pretty one...
Knowledge isn't enough.
You need to take RIGHT ACTION on that knowledge for your life to change.
And if you haven't taken much action yet, then there are deeper issues getting you STUCK.
No more learning... Time to start SOLVING!
π Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com/
- Julien
What stage are you at when it comes to following your purpose? π€
π My new course "THE PURPOSE PROCESS" drops February 1st... Be ready!!!
Since 2010, Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) has been traveling the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face in over 40 countries.
He is the creator of Transformation Mastery, a revolutionary new method for achieving personal success.
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In 2014, Julien Blanc was at the center of a global media scandal that left him shattered and brokenβ¦ He became disillusioned with traditional βself-help teachingsβ when they didn't work for him when he needed them the most.
And it was only by teetering on the brink of death and despair that he discovered the truth about personal transformation and the letting go technique!
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As a world-renowned speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach, Julien Blanc shares his unique method of transformation with millions of people online⦠Teaching them how to let go of fear and self-doubt, and empowering them to create massive success in their lives!