Matthias J Barker @[email protected]
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When you grow up around toxic behaviors, it makes sense that you’d be drawn towards relationships that mimic those behaviors because it reminds you of the love you had as a kid:
- constant criticism
- lack of boundaries
- invalidation
That’s a common result of childhood trauma.
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Cutting someone off isn't about getting the other person to change; we’re not holding the relationship hostage. It's about clarity, creating the space you need to heal, and reclaiming your peace.
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Here's the truth: You can deeply appreciate someone and still call out a toxic behavior. It's not about choosing one over the other.
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Just posted some YouTube Shorts! I'm planning on getting more active on my YouTube channel this summer!! Thanks for hanging in there! Excited for the future!
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Healing Trauma & Meaningful Relationships
Psychotherapist • CEO of TraumaInstitute.com